I try to surround myself with positive people and media because it makes me feel happier and stronger. One of my favorite authors is Jon Gordon. He has written many books that have made a difference in my life. Recently he sent out an email that has some good advice for making your life into what you really want it to be. I am going to share that email here. If you are interested in being on his email list, he sends an email out each Monday and I have given the link below.
Enjoy the read. Wishing you a day of happiness and strength.
Make Your Life into a Masterpiece
The most important masterpiece you’ll ever create is your life. But to create your masterpiece you must first design it. You must have a vision of what it looks like. Once you have a vision and design it you can begin the process of building it.
To help you with your design you can ask questions such as:
What does your life look like when you are at your healthiest, strongest, and best?
What does your family situation look like while you are pursuing success in your work?
What matters most?
What priorities drive you each day?
What are you doing that makes you come alive?
What are you born to do?
What are you doing to live and share your purpose?
When you look back on your life what do you want to be able to say about it?
How do you want to feel?
What will you have wanted to accomplish?
What legacy will you have left?
I asked these questions at the peak of my unhappiness 13 years ago and realized that instead of creating my masterpiece I was building a piece of a junk. Over a period of a few weeks filled with a lot of walks and prayer the answers to these questions came to me and I began the process of designing and building my life as a writer.
For some the answers to these questions may lead you to a new career. However, for most, it will simply lead to changes that will align your life with the vision and design you have for it. For example you may need to exercise more and eat healthier to create your masterpiece. Or perhaps you may need to spend more time with your family because your masterpiece includes great relationships with your kids. Or you might realize that you are not spending enough time on your priorities and therefore your masterpiece is not developing like it should. Whatever your masterpiece looks like, your design will help you see what you need to do, or stop doing, in order to create it.
I also want to caution you to make sure you are building your masterpiece and not someone else's idea of what your masterpiece should be. I know this well. My mom always wanted me to be an attorney. I planned on going to law school after college. When I didn't get into law school, because my LSAT score was so poor, I gave up on the idea of being a lawyer. However, after getting my masters in teaching, opening several restaurants and running for city council of Atlanta at the age of 26 my mom's vision for me still stuck with me. I ended up going to law school in Atlanta for a year and a half. But while taking my second year exams I had this strong feeling that there was something else for me. I stood up and walked out on my final exams and never looked back.
I recently spoke to a school where the wife of my friend from law school is the principal. My friend said when I walked out of the law school exams no one could believe it. He said it was legendary. But I don't think it was legendary to quit. What I think is legendary is when someone stops trying to create someone else's masterpiece and instead focuses on designing and creating the masterpiece they are meant to build.
You have one masterpiece to create and I want to encourage you to design and build YOUR masterpiece, not someone else's.
I also want to encourage you to stay positive as you move from the design phase to the building phase. You will face challenges during the building process but always remember, negative thoughts are the nails that build a prison of failure, but positive thoughts will build you a masterpiece.
Stay flexible and adaptable through the process. It’s okay for your plans to change, especially when your plans must give way to the ultimate creator’s master plan.
And lastly, make sure you choose the right habits because what you do each day will become who you are. Your habits will transform your design, vision and plans into the masterpiece of your life.
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